5 Ways Successful Career Women Can Also Succeed Romantically
“All relationships are really business deals”. Dr Bethany Marshall.
If you’re good at business, selling, marketing, communicating and being of service in any way,there’s no reason you can’t enjoy a great long-term relationship too.
So why are so many successful women(and men) so useless at transferring their business skills over into their romantic lives?
In working with clients who are building successful businesses and careers but still have trouble finding real love, I’ve narrowed it down to these 3 reasons.
- You have pain associated with past relationships/marriage and you actually fear repeating that experience over again, so aren’t really putting yourself in the game.
- You’ve low self-esteem and/or poor body image making it difficult for people to connect fully with you, never mind sleep with or marry you.
- You’re living in a fantasy with either unrealistic expectations on men or on your own priorities in life right now, i.e you don’t really want a man now.
Each of the above blocks you having a man by your side who’ll be a support structure and companion to you as you grow in your biz and career.
Now that’s not to say you need the man to succeed but rather to point out that life’s greatest moments are better shared .
It took me a longtime to accept the fact that I actually wanted to be in a relationship, but when my man clearly communicated what was on offer in a way that was inspiring to me, I soon re-evaluated my independence, fast.
And that’s why relationships are no different to business, you have to be able to communicate, sell and promote a highly valuable “product”, you, in a way that creates value for others, equally you’ll only want to buy into his “product” if there’s something big in it for you .
But do you know your own value and how to communicate that in love?
Or are you stuck in fear about repeating what happened in the last romance and/or low self-esteem?
Here’s a guide to get you as successful in love as you are in your career!
Instead of running from the past and keeping yourself at a safe distance from the man of your dreams, deal with the fear and baggage of what happened in previous relationships.
Action: Get a therapist, a healer or a coach to help you address this baggage that clearly needs thrown of the train if you’re to ride in style.
2) Avoid comparisons.
Poor body image and low self-esteem stems from comparison.
Your body is perfect for your purpose so start appreciating that and why you’re here instead of thinking you can’t sleep or date a man until you’re 10lbs lighter or waxed like a porn star on a hardcore movie set.
Action: Develop self-esteem by taking prudent risks, striking up conversation with hot men and listing your value and success (to yourself) on a regular basis!
3) Learn a new language.
Communication is key so it’s imperative you take the time to find out what’s important to your potential man so you can communicate your value in his language.
Action: Listen on a date carefully and reflect his language if you’re keen on him and share more of yourself, let him know about you, “miss shy” went out in the 1950’s if you want a man Ladies make it happen!
4) Take objection as a sign of interest .
Too many highly successful women fear rejection.
You’re well able to ask a client to invest $5000.00 in your work or your boss for a sabbatical but then when it comes to a man you can’t even ask if he’d like to see you again.Newsflash CityGirls objection and rejection is not defeat, it’s a wake up call to course correct and communicate more.
Action: Give him enough information to make an informed decision about you, if you’re a nodding dog and just agree with everything he won’t necessarily like you and if he still say’s no consider below.
5)Look for your vibrational match.
There’s a man available for you but first you got to give to yourself what you want him to give to you, when you match the vibration of what you’re looking for it’s no longer missing and can show up real easy.
Action- Consider if are you the caliber of person you’re hoping to attract?
Are you investing in yourself, speaking lovingly to yourself, emotionally supporting yourself?
Consider my complimentary Discovery Session to raise your vibration to the level of what you’re hoping to attract.
Book my complimentary Discovery Session if you’d love to
Address the fear of repeating past relationships , which are preventing your ideal man in showing up to support you
Conquer low self-esteem and/or poor body image, so you feel confident and attract your perfect man.
Get clear on your romantic desires and priorities in life right now so you can begin to “spot” your ideal partner more easily , saving you time and awakening effective decisions where romance is concerned.
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