The Real Reason You Never Have Enough Time
“If we deny our fear, we minimise our courage”. Debbie Ford
The sky is blue here in Italy.
The sea is shallow with gentle waves.
There are two boats on the horizon and a bird circling the water, diving in to catch some food periodically.
As a London CityGirl l I rarely would have noticed anything in my environment, yet the environment was certainly impacting me.
Like the building themselves, I got to feel expansive, superior and important in London.
Here my surroundings are simpler, I’m faced with miles of Ionian Sea and a much slower me.
It’s idyllic but rarely comfortable.
Most people say they want more time not realizing that it comes with the added stress of clarity.
Grounded in clarity you’ll be forced to give up what you thought was really you.
Working 12 – 18 hour days , commuting on busy trains and hidden behind millions of people , we don’t have time to think too much about who we are and what we really want to do.
We get to feel safe hidden in a blur of confusion and a gruelling work routine.
Lately I’ve actually been craving that life again.
I know this craving is really a desire for avoidance.
Busyness is always avoidance.
It’s typical of your inner London CityGirl.
She needs a hectic day job as an excuse to avoid herself .
Her demanding schedule means there’s no time to address how she really feels.
Lost in logic and appointments she feels secure.
Today with ample time and space, I’ve left my London CityGirl behind.
With new found time for myself recurring thoughts come through.
“What if ” ?….. is a dominant one.
“What if ” is the question you’ll do anything to avoid.
“What if” we hear the answers and no longer need someone else to tell us what to do?
“What if ” we have to make changes to our diet, financial situation or jobs?
“What if” you can’t do what you’ve heard because you’ll be be abandoned because of it?
Faced with great swaths of time your deepest fears will indeed come through.
And so very often the solutions and support are right behind them.
If we’d only sit still and listen some more .
Instead we quickly :
- Stuff ourselves with food
- Check Facebook
- Schedule an hour with our therapist
- Read even more
Anything to avoid accessing the truth and the power that actually resides within, anything but acknowledge the fear we might feel.
That’s the real reason you don’t have time.
It has nothing to do with lack of it and everything to do with where you prioritise it.
You won’t prioritise time with you because you’re scared.
So instead get real , slow down and find time to be with you.
Here resides your answers, your diamond and the greatest direction concerning what you really want to do.
CityGirl Date- Awakening The Roman :
This week you’re being asked to embody your Roman CityGirl by caring for yourself and simply letting go.
The Roman is the part of you that engages in slow time, pleasure and trusts life. When in balance you’ll experience easy manifestation and opportunity will flow.
You can awaken your Roman CityGirl more by simply taking an hour to yourself in a beautiful and quiet space.
Here you’re asked to:
- Make a list of all the potential suspects that are blocking you from experiencing the vitality, wealth and work you desire. From stimulants to friends you know what they are.
- Now choose the ONE you are ready to let go of, if even just in the short term.
- Find replacements if you can and get some accountability. (I’ll hold you accountable if you want to email me).
Your increased self-worth in letting go of what’s not serving leads to greater net-worth and that’s what draws in the opportunity you deserve.
Let me know how you go.
Recommended Resource for CityGirl Date: Ego Eradicator Meditation with Gabrielle Bernstein
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